Twin Flames Healing Hearts

I love this person, so I will do whatever it takes to love them. Yes, that was my mindset until recently. In the TF runner/chaser dynamic, they say that the one who isn't as spiritually awakened will run. The other, the more awakened twin, will stay and chase after them. I know for damn sure I'm the chaser. But, I'm also the runner. I have to admit: this dynamic was hard for me to understand. How can I run away from myself  if I'm sitting here, doing a shit ton of introspection, trying to engage my inner-selfhood to reveal its mysteries to me so that I can learn these valuable lessons. If only it were that easy. I realized, over the weekend, that I was running from myself. My TF and I are in the runner/chaser flux of "let's be friends" then "let's be lovers" then "I love holding you." You know the drill. I realized I was running because I started to buy into the "let's be casual right now" scenario. I stopped tal...

Run free, my love. Run free. I met my Twin Flame years ago--around 20 years ago, in fact. I've known him in many capacities: teacher, friend, colleague. But only until 3 months ago did I find him as lover. As love. My love. My heart. I remember the day we reconnected as though it were yesterday. My (ex) husband and I had separated, and I had a new-found surge of energy and freedom. I wondered: "are there people out there who I think  I should be with, rather than who  others think  I should be with? Who are those people in my life that I've always been drawn to, but never connected with, romantically (but always wanted to)?" And then it hit me: him. That guy. We'll call him TF. It was a Friday afternoon, and I was near his office that day for another project. Out of nowhere, I had the strongest urge to stop in to say "hi" after not having seen him for--gosh--maybe 6 years? It just felt like something I had  to do. I definitely surprised him, th...